Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have a lost endgame?How do Kramnik and...

Divide Numbers by 0

German equivalent to "going down the rabbit hole"

meaning of "educating the ice"?

An alternative to "two column" geometry proofs

Is Chuck the Evil Sandwich Making Guy's head actually a sandwich?

How does the search space affect the speed of an ILP solver?

Squares inside a square

What happens if you just start drawing from the Deck of Many Things without declaring any number of cards?

How to encrypt the .viminfo file and still get Vim to read it?

Fishing from underwater domes

Table alignment (make the content centre)

How were US credit cards verified in-store in the 1980's?

The Justice Thought & System & its Morals?

Was there an original and definitive use of alternate dimensions/realities in fiction?

Why didn't Thatcher give Hong Kong to Taiwan?

Should we run PBKDF2 for every plaintext to be protected or should we run PBKDF2 only once?

Can users with the same $HOME have separate bash histories?

Can a system of three stars exist?

What is the definition of Product

Why wasn't Linda Hamilton in T3?

What are ways to record who took the pictures if a camera is used by multiple people?

How to call a function with params and check them

How can I modify a line which contains 2nd occurence of a string?

Is it good practice to speed up and slow down where not written in a song?



Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have a lost endgame?


How do Kramnik and Topalov indicate a resignation when they play together?How to resign when my opponent is not at the board?How to teach (intermediary) chess to small groups with little timeWhat are the actions one can do against Chess.com players who stop moving when they are in an objectively losing position and refuse to resign?






.everyoneloves__top-leaderboard:empty,.everyoneloves__mid-leaderboard:empty,.everyoneloves__bot-mid-leaderboard:empty{ margin-bottom:0;
}







4















I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



enter image description here



Is it unfair to ask for a resignation in these kinds positions in an online chess game?










share|improve this question






















  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    8 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago


















4















I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



enter image description here



Is it unfair to ask for a resignation in these kinds positions in an online chess game?










share|improve this question






















  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    8 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago














4












4








4








I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



enter image description here



Is it unfair to ask for a resignation in these kinds positions in an online chess game?










share|improve this question
















I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



enter image description here



Is it unfair to ask for a resignation in these kinds positions in an online chess game?







endgame online-chess resigning






share|improve this question















share|improve this question













share|improve this question




share|improve this question








edited 4 hours ago









Rewan Demontay

1,8452 gold badges8 silver badges35 bronze badges




1,8452 gold badges8 silver badges35 bronze badges










asked 8 hours ago









Universal_learnerUniversal_learner

5383 silver badges14 bronze badges




5383 silver badges14 bronze badges











  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    8 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago














  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    8 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago








4




4





I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

– konsolas
8 hours ago





I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

– konsolas
8 hours ago




4




4





Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

– Qudit
8 hours ago





Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

– Qudit
8 hours ago













Another day, another edit!

– Rewan Demontay
8 hours ago





Another day, another edit!

– Rewan Demontay
8 hours ago




1




1





You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

– Allure
2 hours ago





You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

– Allure
2 hours ago










2 Answers
2






active

oldest

votes


















6
















Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
a lost endgame?




Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






share|improve this answer


























  • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

    – Universal_learner
    6 hours ago





















1















Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







share|improve this answer






























    Your Answer








    StackExchange.ready(function() {
    var channelOptions = {
    tags: "".split(" "),
    id: "435"
    };
    initTagRenderer("".split(" "), "".split(" "), channelOptions);

    StackExchange.using("externalEditor", function() {
    // Have to fire editor after snippets, if snippets enabled
    if (StackExchange.settings.snippets.snippetsEnabled) {
    StackExchange.using("snippets", function() {
    createEditor();
    });
    }
    else {
    createEditor();
    }
    });

    function createEditor() {
    StackExchange.prepareEditor({
    heartbeatType: 'answer',
    autoActivateHeartbeat: false,
    convertImagesToLinks: false,
    noModals: true,
    showLowRepImageUploadWarning: true,
    reputationToPostImages: null,
    bindNavPrevention: true,
    postfix: "",
    imageUploader: {
    brandingHtml: "Powered by u003ca class="icon-imgur-white" href="https://imgur.com/"u003eu003c/au003e",
    contentPolicyHtml: "User contributions licensed under u003ca href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/"u003ecc by-sa 3.0 with attribution requiredu003c/au003e u003ca href="https://stackoverflow.com/legal/content-policy"u003e(content policy)u003c/au003e",
    allowUrls: true
    },
    noCode: true, onDemand: true,
    discardSelector: ".discard-answer"
    ,immediatelyShowMarkdownHelp:true
    });


    }
    });














    draft saved

    draft discarded


















    StackExchange.ready(
    function () {
    StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fchess.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f25280%2fis-it-rude-to-ask-my-opponent-to-resign-an-online-game-when-they-have-a-lost-end%23new-answer', 'question_page');
    }
    );

    Post as a guest















    Required, but never shown

























    2 Answers
    2






    active

    oldest

    votes








    2 Answers
    2






    active

    oldest

    votes









    active

    oldest

    votes






    active

    oldest

    votes









    6
















    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






    share|improve this answer


























    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago


















    6
















    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






    share|improve this answer


























    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago
















    6














    6










    6










    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






    share|improve this answer














    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.







    share|improve this answer












    share|improve this answer



    share|improve this answer










    answered 7 hours ago









    Brian TowersBrian Towers

    21.1k4 gold badges41 silver badges92 bronze badges




    21.1k4 gold badges41 silver badges92 bronze badges
















    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago





















    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago



















    I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

    – Universal_learner
    6 hours ago







    I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

    – Universal_learner
    6 hours ago















    1















    Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




    Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
    is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







    share|improve this answer
































      1















      Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




      Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
      is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







      share|improve this answer






























        1














        1










        1









        Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




        Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
        is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







        share|improve this answer















        Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




        Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
        is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.








        share|improve this answer














        share|improve this answer



        share|improve this answer








        edited 1 hour ago

























        answered 1 hour ago









        AkavallAkavall

        3,2001 gold badge11 silver badges20 bronze badges




        3,2001 gold badge11 silver badges20 bronze badges

































            draft saved

            draft discarded




















































            Thanks for contributing an answer to Chess Stack Exchange!


            • Please be sure to answer the question. Provide details and share your research!

            But avoid



            • Asking for help, clarification, or responding to other answers.

            • Making statements based on opinion; back them up with references or personal experience.


            To learn more, see our tips on writing great answers.




            draft saved


            draft discarded














            StackExchange.ready(
            function () {
            StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fchess.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f25280%2fis-it-rude-to-ask-my-opponent-to-resign-an-online-game-when-they-have-a-lost-end%23new-answer', 'question_page');
            }
            );

            Post as a guest















            Required, but never shown





















































            Required, but never shown














            Required, but never shown












            Required, but never shown







            Required, but never shown

































            Required, but never shown














            Required, but never shown












            Required, but never shown







            Required, but never shown







            Popular posts from this blog

            Taj Mahal Inhaltsverzeichnis Aufbau | Geschichte | 350-Jahr-Feier | Heutige Bedeutung | Siehe auch |...

            Baia Sprie Cuprins Etimologie | Istorie | Demografie | Politică și administrație | Arii naturale...

            Nicolae Petrescu-Găină Cuprins Biografie | Opera | In memoriam | Varia | Controverse, incertitudini...